Another one of those memoirs about a horrific childhood, this one is both well-written and engaging. A video of Mr. Pemberton speaking (http://frontrow.bc.edu/program/pemberton/) illustrates an interesting point ... the abuse he suffered as a child in the foster care system isn't actually his main story. For him, as a biracial child with no knowledge of his past, the more compelling part of his personal narrative was to find out where he belonged. The answers, which take up the second half of the book, are more complex than he ever imagined. In an era where we talk a lot about "resilience" this is a story of a young man who had his focus on the right things. He was determined and a survivor. The tale unfolds with a certain amount of humbleness. Mr. Pemberton realizes, along his path, that he was "graced" in some ways that those around him were not. In the end, one might say he finds home within himself.
While satisfying and a good read, I have some minor bones to pick. The publisher is the Christian publishing arm of HarperCollins, and, while it is not an evangelical novel, in the final chapters there is a significant emphasis on God, and that may make some readers somewhat uncomfortable. Also, even though it is a major publisher, the quality of the book is poor -- the pages thin, the typeface old-school. Editing, also, could be improved, as there are occasional jumps from chapter to chapter, a break in flow that seems clunky.
All that being said, this was another one of those books which was a difficult read on a personal level, as I recognized much of what he said, having experiences similar, at times, to his. Unhappy homes are far more frequent than many think. A book like this does what I always wanted to do as an adult -- it lets people who live through this know they are not alone.
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